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[quote=Anonymous]I am so sorry. The early days after discovery were the absolute worst. If you are not currently seeing a therapist, you need to get one ASAP, and they need to be informed in trauma recovery. The posters at survivinginfidelity.com have a wealth of helpful insight and I highly recommend them. I saw a recommendation on here yesterday about Partner Hope and the website has a bunch of blog posts covering the stages of healing from betrayal trauma. You are the not the reason your husband cheated. The state of your marriage is not the reason your husband cheated. He is 100% responsible for his actions, so don't fall into the blame trap especially once you confront him. You don't have to make any long-term decisions today but start contingency planning to protect yourself and your children, no matter what path you choose.[/quote]
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