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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If his college buddies are flying in from all over the country to spend the weekend celebrating his milestone …. Then, yes, he should spend the morning golfing with them!

Now, whether he acts appreciative of your efforts is a different question. [/quote]

And the 2 nights before going out with them

I'm not disagreeing with you, just wanting to make clear that he is not asking for a few hours. He is literally asking for a 4 day weekend of
"not it!"
"fete me!"[/quote]

I think the issue is that this party has gotten out of hand and is now much larger than you want to handle (or you feel you want to fete him for).  But I think his idea of getting as much childcare as possible is a great one.  His idea of relying exclusively on friends is a terrible one.  And his attitude is terrible.  These are all different things and you are rolling them all up into one because it sounds like your celebration party has taken on a (bad) life of its own.[/quote]

Op here-
One of the friends that he said I should rely on/he was seemingly appalled that I would rather seek paid help than use free friends/family just announced that she can't attend, due to a family emergency...validating my point of not wanting rely on friends or even certain family members.

I don't disagree with your take either. I am genuinely excited for it- once it gets going and things just start happening.
But overarching, his attitude which seems to be a combo of ungrateful, bratty, and condescending is putting a damper on my excitement[/quote]

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