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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this is something that I had to deal with in 2020. You shouldn't have let it fester into 2023. Yes, the adjustment wasn't easy, but you have to find ways of coping effectively. I set clear boundaries for water cooler conversations. I started eating some lunches alone, instead of always making sure we're eating together. I make lunch plans with friends. The key in all of this is, you can change your own behavior, but you cannot change your DH's (short of asking for very specific easily done items). There is so much you can do, instead of wasting time on resentment. Buy him the "pajama" outfits you think might look better/be more acceptable to you. Set lunch dates. Find ways of motivating him. In 2020, we started going for morning runs together. We don't anymore, but for a while this was a pleasant mutually beneficial activity. [/quote]
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