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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I try to clear my schedule when my MIL comes. For example, I would NEVER visit a cousin like you suggested. But, I do household chores and when my kids were little, my MIL could come along on family outings (she enjoyed them).

When she says “But we came here to see YOU!” can’t you reply “I thought you came here to visit with the kids also? They’d really like your company when we go to the museum/walk/movie/ice skating”

I’m a little informal. I personally would say, oh come on! It will be fun! Please!” Make her feel wanted. [/quote]

Hopefully my future DILs are like you.  You sound nice.  :)[/quote]

NP, Honestly ILs are so much easier! I’m happy to put a little extra cheer in my voice for my ILs to make them feel wanted and loved. And they would go along either the plans! If I did that for my mom, she’d say ”you can see me at your house where we can talk and it’s comfortable” and then it’d be straight back to another 8 hours of adult conversation. [/quote]

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