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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - have you been cut off? It sounds like you are lashing out at invisible Internet posters who post advice on cutting someone off. I’ve never been cut off but I can imagine it is deeply frustrating that you can’t lash out at the person who cut you off because we’ll you’re cut off.

I don’t think it matters why someone choses to end a relationship if they don’t want to share that information. You really are in no position to judge whether a strangers decision to cut someone off is too minor in your opinion.

I think it’s healthy to remember that no one is entitled to an ongoing relationship with anyone else. It’s mutual acceptance only. You can’t rage your way into someone’s life or believe that just because you are related that they owe you something. They don’t. If you are cut off, accept it and move on. [/quote]

Oh look, it’s the poster who thinks anybody who disagrees with her must have been cut off themselves. Your behavior here is a sign of immaturity and pot-stirring all by itself. No, as I’ve posted other threads, I spent a very pleasant Thanksgiving with my two children. My daughter used her 2nd or 3rd paycheck to take me to dinner, and last week my son thanked me for decisions I had made. Both were unsolicited and unexpected.

Your assumption that anybody who cuts someone else off must be right is sick, that’s the only word I can think of for it. Sometimes they’re right. Other times the person doing the cutting is overreacting to a minor slight by creating a permanent rift. Other times the person doing the cutting is an immature, self-centered jack-a$$ who isn’t getting their way. (Like you, I imagine.)[/quote]

It's really none of your business, OP. Yet you create this overly dramatic thread to repeat the same things you said in the other threads. [/quote]

Your cr@ppy “advice” is destructive and calling it out isn’t being “overly dramatic,” it’s bringing some reasoned maturity to the discussion. I’ve seen some (not me, ask the moderator) speculate you’re a troll or a 13-year-old. You should take a good look at your behavior, but you’re too immature to do so. [/quote]

I think you need to take a break from the internet. You don't seem to realize that you are interacting with more than one person. [/quote]

Yes, we all know there are two of you who think cutting everybody off is the solution to every inter-personal problem. You haven’t addressed any of the valid points raised above, about the value of using your words to compromise, instead all you have is insults. That alone says a lot about your maturity level. [/quote]

[b]Ah yes, I am so immature for cutting off child abusers and murderers.[/b] [/quote]

PP, I am sincerely sorry that you have had people like that in your life. You are brave for standing up to them and cutting them out of your life. I hope you are well and safe.[/quote]

+1. Good for you for cutting the murderer out of your life. [/quote]

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