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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After six months of complaining about the loss to a therapist I started seeing specifically to get over an ex:

Therapist: But what was so great about [EX]?

Me: Lists everything.

(Looooooong pause)

Therapist: Yeah, you're not going to meet someone like that again. Just be happy with who you meet or be alone if you can't.

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I mean, can they really be that great if they broke up with you? What caused the break up?
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They didn’t  love you enough to want to be with you.  They didn’t feel it as much as you did.  Move on[/quote]

Yes, I know they don't want to be with me. So I should settle for not as good since that's the best I can do?

We dated in our 40s and I've spent the last two years sleeping with college students because those relationships mean nothing.

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Wait -- so this means you are in, or past, your 40s and you are having sex with college students? Either you're a college employee/professor/tutor, in which case, clearly scum for screwing students. Or you're a sugar daddy/mama paying for sex one way or another. Or you want us to believe that college students are happily hooking up with someone around 50 because you're so very hot or mind-blowing in bed that they'll happily have sex with you without $$ or favors or grades involved....As if college weren't rife with people their own age to hook up with. [/quote]

Nah, just a successful, fun man who lives near a campus. College women are much cheaper dates than real dating.  It's extremely easy for me. Can't explain it.
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You didn't mention the age issue. You're at least 20 years, maybe 30 years, older, based on your first post about an ex you dated "in our 40s."

Sure, dating those college kids all about the fun. Believe it all you like. We know that "successful" is code for "I've got enough bucks to throw around so they date me for money/expensive gifts/other sort-of-sugar-daddy perks." Not for fun that's anything other than high-end. Or for your fabulous bedroom technique. But feel free to keep telling yourself that! [/quote]

I'm not that previous guy, but after being dumped by my age-appropriate gf I found myself dating a lot of women in their 20s, and as he said they cost less than 40s-50s age women do. My ex-gf needed to stay in $650/night resorts any time we travelled. None of the women I am dating have asked for any money, or gotten any gifts (other than skimpy lingerie). I do pay for dinners. The real expense will probably be child support, because of the risks we take...
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I am mid 40s. I am nothing like the women you write about. I don't expect gifts and have never stayed in a resort that expensive. I don't even eat steak for dinner. I am an extremely cheap date. The women you were dating are losers.[/quote]

Don't bother with trolls like the one who's coming here to claim he's some hot 50s daddy dating "cheap" college girls. It's some guy who gets his jollies getting into these threads and pretending to spice them up. The clues above are the "joke" about "the risks we take" and the reference to how young women will gladly have sex with a guy 20-30 years older just for a few dinners and the "skimpy lingerie" he gives them (and of course for his incredible sexual prowess!).[/quote]

I'm not hot, and I'm not dating college girls. Don't project your own transactional thought process onto other people. [/quote]

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