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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. How do I respond when DH is angry that I hired someone to fix the shower? There is no way he will say thanks or even say nothing. He will definitely be annoyed. And to the PP who asked if I am a money waster, no I am not. DH and I definitely disagree on what is a worthwhile use of money and what is not, but at the end of every discussion, he has the final say. I have conditioned myself to be very frugal over the years in response to his behavior. [/quote] I think you need to work to not internalize his reaction. He has a weird thing about paying for home repairs which leads him to act like a jerk. That doesn't mean you have done anything wrong. You are find and you got the job done. What would happen if he gets annoyed and you laugh and say "you're welcome!" If that doesn't work, I agree with pp that you should go the financial planner/budget route.[/quote]
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