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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have an ex who I have sex dreams about randomly. He passed away a few years ago and we werent in touch at that time. We werent even serious. I do not think of him outside of these dreams. I dont dream about any other exes and I dont really think about other exes besides fleeting thoughts of thank god I left/got away/didnt stay. It is in line with his prior existence that he would make appearances in that manner and only in that manner so I take it as a sweet gesture from a horny ghost. [/quote]

NP. Also had an ex who died and think about him much more than I should.[b] He died violently and was an objectively awful person in ways I won't detail, but never awful to me. In fact, just the opposite, with me.[/b] It wasn't a romance or dating like people think about on this forum, but a clear arrangement that suited us. It created very intense attachment of its own kind and I have to work hard at not thinking about him, sometimes. We stopped seeing each other four months before he was killed, when I had to move away, but we were still in close contact. And we had started talking about resuming, long-distance, which is probably one reason he's living rent-free in my head; we were not fully "exes."[/quote]

You didn't see it out long enough to experience his awfulness.  He was truly awful, but in the love bombing stage with you.  Not living or seeing you everyday let him use you and play a fantasy.  [/quote]

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