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Reply to "Spouse doesn’t want you at work holiday party"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you’re seriously over-valuing work holiday parties. Ours is about as good as it gets—massive (several thousand people) at a well-known private club in NY, live bands, food is amazing, blah blah, but it’s still just a work thing at the end. I’d probably skip it if I could. That said I don’t want my spouse there either. It’s work. With colleagues and clients. My work persona is not my spouse persona, and I don’t want my worlds colliding. Nothing to do with an affair or anything remotely close to that (love how all the jaded DCUMs trot that out at every opportunity). I just don’t want to mix my personal and professional lives that way. Also, yes, any hope of having fun with the colleagues and clients I like would be completely shot. [/quote] If you can’t have fun with your spouse present, it sounds like you either really dislike your spouse, or you’re putting on a false persona at work that you don’t want your spouse to know about. [/quote]
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