Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Blindsided by in-laws inviting random cousin to Thanksgiving gathering?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]OP, I get that you think you have made peace with your husband’s actions, but your reaction to this situation is a pretty glaring contradiction of that belief. If your husband was a young man who did not know where boundaries were and has worked to learn those lessons and you believe that and don’t have any concerns about his offenses being more than you are aware of, why are you reacting so strongly to this situation? Your husband, who has a history of predatory behavior, was accused by someone of crossing a line. It doesn’t sound like the cousin was maliciously making things up. The kindest read I can see is that there was a big misunderstanding here. It sounds like this situation is opening old wounds. Get thee to a therapist and figure out how you can be a helpful addition to this family’s healing process. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
