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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I don’t understand how her life choices are affecting you or what she’s doing (besides existing) that bothers you so much.

And your other sibling is a pot-stirrer.  Does this sister not envy the other family members, only you?  How come everyone else is able to deal with her?[/quote]

Her existence does not bother me. I wish her nothing but success and happiness as I wish all of mankind.[b] I really don’t want to go down the road of explaining my feelings[/b]. I was simply asking how to go about fading her out of my life. If I continue to be consistent with my actions, barring something catastrophic, eventually she should get it. I’m hoping.

I don’t know if she’s envious of other people, I don’t put too much stock in her. But with siblings, there’s a certain ‘access’ of one’s life that there’s not with other people. My family and I are conflict avoiding people. They just let her be. I just don’t want her to be in my life.

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It is really hard to help someone if they don't explain a bit more.  But, I will say that if you cease to talk or see your sister there will be drama.[/quote]

I speak to her and see her when I have to. And I guess I feel that I have to for family gatherings. But I do not want to grab a drink with her or eat lunch with her one on one or really speak to her. I guess I am trying to figure out why that would cause drama. She comes to my house and eat my food (which I cook for her separately because of her allergies) and she drinks my wine, and I do so because I am hosting all of my family. But I no longer go to her house and eat her food one on one or invite her to my house if there was not a social event.[/quote]

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