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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your kids probably got the cold from their classmates ore-thanksgivibg break; incubation of 2-4 days, symptoms now.

Find another scapegoat and unclench[/quote]

The baby is not in school and no one else is sick. I’m not clenched- my spouse is and I’m wondering what the line is.[/quote]

Does it matter "what the line is"? ^^

You and your spouse have already made up your mind, vented about it to each othet, and now subtly holding a grudge and self righteous.

You even said it wasn't anything super bad like notorious, flu, covid, or the like. So, stop everything bc someone has a head cold?

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Well, that’s what I’m asking[b]. I haven’t made up my mind.[/b] But I do think the sick guest shouldn’t be the one deciding without telling others.[/quote]
[b]Yes, you have. Re-read your obnoxious OP. You’re accusing your inlaw of downplaying how they felt. They had a cold. They likely felt well enough to attend or they wouldn’t have come. That’s not downplaying symptoms. If you don’t want your kids exposed to colds, don’t leave your house until next May[/b].
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+1 It’s laughable that OP is trying to say she hasn’t “made up my mind.”

Maybe you can convince yourself of this, OP. But the rest of us see you loud and clear. [/quote]

What’s to see loud and clear? [b]That i have the opinion that it’s inconsiderate to gather with immediate family without telling them you’re sick beforehand? [/b]So no one can make their own decisions?

I’m not sure if it’s reasonable for people to attend thanksgiving with colds. I see it both ways. But it’s certainly selfish to not even disclose it until you arrive. I’m guessing you and the PP are like this.[/quote]
Well you claimed you hadn’t made up your mind when you clearly had. At least now you’re being honest and admitting you have. You’re just pissy that everyone is jumping on the bandwagon calling your in-law selfish.

[b]You knew this person was sick and continued to spend tine with then, including staying the night[/b]. That’s on you that your kid is now sick. [/quote]

First, PP, you seem terrible. Second, the sick person should leave (or better yet, not attend). Other people shouldn't be expected to leave to avoid the sick person. That's obviously nonsense. It's crazy how tribalism has so completely overtaken the brains of the stop-acting-like-Covid-exists people.  Sick people were expected to stay home even before the pandemic.  No one wants your germs. [/quote]

+1,000[/quote]

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