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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with OP that if 4 girls play together at school and all get along, to invite 2 of them to do something with yours is mean. I have a 10yo DD and this is a hard age. There’s no need to be a jerk. OP initiate something with one of the kids yourself. [/quote]

No it isn’t mean.  They aren’t blood sisters bc they sit at the same lunch table.  You really don’t know how close the are- as a group of 4.  Maybe they all play with other kids too.  The mom can’t possibly include every person her child plays with and likes at school to all things.

What the others do outside of school has nothing to do with OP’s DD, “excluding” (since there is no implied reason she should be included), or being mean.  They likely do stuff with each other outside of school because it is convenient; maybe they have a sport together, live in the same neighborhood, are family friends, only have 2 extra seats in their car.   It doesn’t matter.  It has nothing to do with exclusion though.  Your DD is a school friend.  It isn’t realistic to expect for every friend she plays with at school to also be an out-of-school friend too.  Some will be be, and some won’t.  Do you own planning and inviting for the girls she wants to play with outside of school.  [/quote]

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