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[quote=Anonymous]Ultimately, it will take a crisis to change the situation. If he is evicted and must go to a men’s shelter, they can start the process on securing him more stable housing. If he refuses a shelter snd choses to live in his car, that is his right, as long as he has capacity to make his own decisions (and it sounds like he does, despite the mental health issues, drinking, etc.). You *cannot* sacrifice your well-being, and that of your kids, for your father. That money keeps YOUR family away from a crisis, or finding yourself without the resources to afford the basic resources you need to stay well. And it wouldn’t even help your father in the long-run; it would merely be a bandaid. He is an adult who has made his choices, abs you can’t fix it. [/quote]
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