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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Walk to school. Do an activity with other friends. Host a party or larger playdate. Do smaller one on one playdates with kids your kids really get along well with.[/quote]

OP. I'm doing all this, but many people are too busy to join activities, playdates, or parties. The only people who RSVP yes are socially awkward or boring. I feel like I'm doomed to hang out with people I don't actually like because all the interesting people's dance cards are full. [/quote]

No, it’s because most people have learned that it’s not good to try and be friends with your kid’s friend’s parents.  Some of us have older children.  We have seen how those kids who got along wonderfully for most of elementary school start drifting apart later and sometimes feelings are hurt.  The parents don’t understand how it’s a normal part of development and try to intervene, to hold onto the family get togethers.  It makes it worse.  If it’s still going on in middle school, the kids aren’t speaking and the parents are posting on the teen forum about how Jane is the victim of mean girl behavior and her mom, your close friend, won’t step in and make her daughter include Jane on sleepovers.  Take a look over there and see.

Save yourself the drama.  Find friends that are separate from your children. [/quote]

It’s actually great advice to not try to make whole-family friends

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