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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [/quote] You said he pays for your housing. Stop diminishing his financial support for your children. And you.[/quote] OP here. I didn't give details, but his mom gives him a check every month for the condo. So it's his family who gives him financial support. I didn't know this either. And he chose not to tell me. Anyway, I am working through the financial resentment, but it's hard. He spends most of his time at home. [/quote] It does not matter where he gets the money. He is providing housing for you and the kids. If he is on the birth certificate, he is the legal father and the courts will hold him accountable. If you are unhappy rent or buy your own place and move. What is the issue? What do you resent? You said he is not the father, so he has no obligations to these kids. But, yet, he is on the birth certificate which you did, so you committed him to actual obligations and didn't think it though.[/quote]
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