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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems like an exceedingly reckless and poor choice to voluntarily give an ex b/f parental rights.  It would be one thing if you guys decided to live together for a few years and it worked out well and then you consented to an adoption but you took a huge and unnecessary risk here.  It seems, perhaps, that it has worked out well since you guys live together I assume he is involved and a decent father otherwise you would have said so but it could have very well gone the other way.[/quote]

This story is confusing to me. If he would not commit to you, after years, why would you chain your kids to him legally?

No one in your family needs to see that birth certificate, so I don’t get why you had to alter it for them.

Is what you did even legal? Did he agree to it?

Do your kids think he is their biological father? If so, please get therapy around how to tell them the truth, which they deserve. Forget about any name change until they are old enough to weigh in. (Otherwise, you are weaponizing your kids to hurt your partner.) [/quote]

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