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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not a hard situation to handle - assuming your husband, BIL and SIL all agree with you. BIL and SIL are the hosts; BIL just needs to set limits with his parents, and your husband needs to do the same. Don’t lie, don’t sneak around, don’t whine. Your husband and BIL are grown men; they just need to set boundaries and hold to them.[/quote] This. This. This. This. Ya'll need to stop telling them when the two junior families are getting together.[/quote] Right? This is the PP. Unless the parents have the BIL/SIL’s home under surveillance, someone is telling them when these events happen. That someone either has poor boundaries, doesn’t agree with OP, or both. The adult men need to just be kind but firm with their parents, if they don’t want this to continue. It is not hard.[/quote]
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