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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that anyone even remotely interested in equity should be completely against gifts from friends at parties. It’s always very obvious who the less well off families are from what they give, and if it’s not obvious then it’s because a family is doing without something else so they can bring your child an appropriate gift. Nobody wants to be the odd person out giving a “cheap” gift. I was that kid and I usually found an excuse to not go to parties because it was a bad experience either way for me. [/quote]

This makes no sense. My 2nd graders favorite store is 5 below. Get him a 5 dollar basketball or some slime and he will be thrilled. It’s gauche to open gifts at the party anyways so no one will know that you purchased the 5 below sparkly flashlight which, fyi, was the favorite present [/quote]

Every kids party I ever went to had the birthday kid opening presents in front of everybody. And I would never have the idea to buy something from that store. People with no money really don’t want to be the one bringing a $5 gift when everyone else brings one for $20+.[/quote]

My oldest is 12, and we’ve been to probably 75 birthday parties. I have never seen anyone open gifts. [/quote]

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