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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that once your story comes out, it will be less likely to scare men away. The problem is the twice-divorced part might come out before the whole explanation as you don't want to get into the sordid details of past relationships right upon meeting someone.

If your marriages ended because you 'grew apart' or 'made a bad choice' or 'just didn't want to be married anymore' or 'irreconcilable differences' then those are huge red flags. You don't have those. Your first husband had a mental illness that you both worked hard to address - you didn't just bail. The second marriage ended because of his infidelity - again not necessarily anything to do with you.

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Yes, but what is the common factor in both scenarios?  OP, and her choices.  Choices are generally based on needs/ desires. The fact that OP is already worried about this issue, with all of the problems she claims to be sorting through, plus a 15 month old to take care of, says that she is no where near the point where she should be choosing again.[/quote]

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