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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the poster who suggested people pleasing and that suggestion was in response to the big picture and I think I might remember the old post and thought you were describing my husband. I'm guessing the ER thing is just the thing that got you to post again and it's big enough to be "obviously" an issue to outsiders and you're reacting to the sum of years of of these issues big and small. Plus by now you are probably contributing to the dynamic because you've felt unheard for so long.

Does he have an overbearing mom? Husband also had neuropsych with processing issues but that was what I hung onto for a long time to make it makes sense. It was not the primary issue, which was people pleasing. Note I didn't say people pleasing behavior actually pleases anyone. It does not. It's for the person doing it to feel better about themselves.

Does he have his own preferences about stuff? I don't mean do you compromise/take turns on activities. I mean does he even HAVE any preferences of his in the first place? Or is it always "I'm fine with whatever you want to do."[/quote]

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