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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whenever you meet new people or talk about your kids being college age, inevitably the person needs to know where they go to school. 
Do we all feed into this and then get judged (or appreciated) depending on where they go?

I find myself doing it, and it’s asked of me all the time.

No wonder rankings have become so “important”

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I'm not asking so I can judge you.  I'm asking because I want to get to know you, and your kids are part of your life.

I don't care if you answer Montgomery College or Harvard.  [/quote]

So you ask “where is x in college” and they say they don’t go to college they wait tables or they are work retail, and you think it’s still okay to say “where do they go to college”[/quote]

A few months ago, I was at a kids' sporting event and I was making conversation with another mom and she mentioned her sons were out of HS. A little bit later in the convo I said, oh are they away at college? I was asking to be polite and take an interest, and I guess just figure out how many she still has at home. She said, oh they're in the trades, but yes they're college age. And then I asked about their jobs. I felt so bad that I said it like that. But she was a completely normal person and did not make me feel bad at all and we continued with our pleasant convo. I agree, you shouldn't make the assumption about college, but when 90% of the 18 year olds you know are going to college, you forget at times.[/quote]

This is a wake up call that you live in a bubble. I hope that you make an effort to broaden your world view, and especially that of your children.[/quote]

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