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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wonder if anyone else experienced this. My best friend from childhood and I had moms who put on a show for outsiders, we frequently heard how about wonderful our mothers were. We both at different ages after trying everything went no contact, In both cases eventually without us to abuse, our moms showed their dark side to others. At her mom’s funeral she thought people would berate her for being estranged. Instead she heart countless stories of her moms selfish and entitled behavior from others in her CCRC. People came to the funeral to socialize and because they were curious to meet estranged daughter. She even had strangers speculate how hard it must have been growing up with that mother.

My mom has since lashed out at others now that she doesn’t have me to verbally beat up. I think some people have a disturbing darkness inside of them. So many of us spend time in therapy trying to make things work with these tyrants and we blame ourselves and try to adapt and accommodate. When you finally had enough you get to breathe and they just find another victim. It’s not about you. It’s about people refusing to face and treat their demons.[/quote]

This is really disturbing on so many levels. People came to a funeral to trash the deceased, and out of curiosity to see an estranged child? What kind of people are these? Sounds like they are all well matched.[/quote]

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