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Reply to "Boyfriend is NOT a planner- do you have this dynamic?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Unfortunately, neither my husband nor I are real "planners". We would both love to just wait until Friday afternoon, decide what we want to do that weekend, and go. But I've faced the reality that with kids involved, that just doesn't work the way it did when we were 23. What has mostly worked for me is to schedule a planning date. We book it as a dinner out so it doesn't feel like a chore. We both do as much research as we can handle ahead of time. Then we sit down at a restaurant, order a glass of wine, and go through it all. Our only rule is that decisions must get made - no "oh we should look into this other option....". If we can book stuff on our phones at the restaurant, we do. If we can't, we divide it up and promise each other that the reservations will be made within a day.[/quote]
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