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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sorry that you're unhappy and you aren't bring inconsistent. I get it. I agree with many PPs that you should seek counseling, but perhaps not for the same reasons. I think you need to figure out what you really want, and I'm not sure you do. You're in a tough spot, and it's no wonder you find yourself going back and forth between trying to convince yourself that he's really a good guy who hasn't done anything wrong and you should just stck it out since he's a "good dad", and getting out of a loveless marriage because being roommates really isn't enough and you deserve better. Just because he isn't abusive doesn't mean you should be unhappy for the rest of your life. Because you married for the wrong reasons (because he looked good on paper and everyone seemed to love him) shouldn't mean you have to stay with him forever even if you didn't realize you were making a mistake at the time. It doesn't sound as though either of you is happy. I don't think that forcing yourself to have sex with him is the answer. That's actually the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Do something you really dont want to do and objectify both it and you and maybe you'll start to like it. What a great idea. NO. That isn't what sex between a husband and wife is supposed to be. When it becomes that is when you're supposed to STOP and talk about why you feel that way about it. My advice is to find a therapist who can help you sort out what you really want to do. If you feel this marriage is salvageable (maybe it is) then you can talk about what to do to work towards that. If it isn't, then you can figure out how to make as easy a break for your children as possible. There ARE amicable splits, and when both parties feel that they are roommates, but there's no hatred for each other, just no love, it's when it is the easiest (not that it is ever easy). Good luck. You are not an evil person for feeling the way you do, and yes, true love really does exist. You and your husband deserve it. With each other or with other partners. [/quote]

+1..... Well said![/quote]

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