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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - you and I have  lot in common. My spouse also earns a good living, "looks good on paper", works hard, owns his own business, etc.  My biggest problem is that I am just not attracted to him - plain and simple.  I don't think of other men, but I find sex tedious, I find my husband boring and unattractive.  But we also have children and a so-called "life" we have built together. I feel sorry for him because he is not a bad person. He still finds me attractive and wants to be "the perfect couple".  I have just lost all sex drive and desire for intimacy.  Am I bad person for this?  It's a physical more than emotional thing - although it is emotional, too.[/quote]

Why in the world did you marry him, PP?[/quote]

PP here - because I have changed. I was attracted to him - the first several years of marriage were great and fun and fine. It has changed after kids and after careers became more demanding.  He has also gained weight and become less attractive to me, plain and simple.  But I know it is mostly that I have just changed.  I don't enjoy being in a relationship, I want more time alone. Maybe it is because the drain of kids demanding my time, work and then husband on top of all that is hard.....[/quote]

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