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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]OP are you paying her bills? Buying food or diapers for her first?[/b] Are you judging that she is having a second one she can't afford or that she is single? Or "unwed" as you put it.

While I don't think having 2 on her own at 21 is the best situation, something about you just rubs me the wrong way.[/quote]

Well if she's on welfare.........then the answer is yes. [/quote]

She is on welfare, food stamps, the works.  She is currently unemployed, we are not talking about a hard working career woman who decided to start a family on her own.  We are talking about a young [b]lady[/b] that has thrown caution to the wind, and expects everyone to bail her out when she needs help.   I am thinking about the baby, which is why I am sending a gift, I think I made that pretty clear.  My problem is the family throwing her a baby shower and expecting people to again supply her with baby items.   [b]I feel for her parents [/b]because they are supporting her and the children.  Another reason I will help.  I know she is a difficult person, she is demanding about how and when things are done.  I know there was some suspicion that she was using marijuana during her last pregnancy, and she got a visit from CPS in the hospital after the birh.   But, no I am not buying her diapers or food, I guess I am judging her, because I know the history  and I am worried.  [/quote]

First, she is NO lady.  She is trash.

Second, her parents' raised her so to feel sorry for them might be misplaced.  She presumably learned about values and morals from them.  If they are giving her a baby shower then they pretty trashy too.  Putting aside the whole entitlement attitude and "stamp-of-approval" it appears to put on it, family does not throw present-trolling parties for other family members.  Looks like the apple did not fall far from the tree afterall.[/quote]

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