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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because your value system of "what's fair" doesn't seem fair to her (and reading what you wrote, I guess I agree with her). I think you are overthinking "make it yourself" thing too seriously. I don't see any issues with helping out to the extend you helped other kids? I am not going to say you are playing favoritism, but it does sound uneven treatment[/quote] +1[/quote] +2 You don't have a principled stand against helping young adults. You won't do for her what you have done for others. That does seem unfair. Why was it okay to help those other kids? Why didn't they need to "make it on their own"? Did you think you were hurting them by giving them an opportunity? I absolutely see your daughter's point.[/quote]
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