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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh, sounds terrible. My parents were not Borderline, but I definitely grew up in a dysfunctional family with a lot of love. My late mom was amazing, did everything for me, sacrificed so much and loved her grandchildren. But she put up with a bad marriage— lots of screaming, broken things, even probably what most would consider abuse. But I love my dad too. He was generous, brilliant, funny, etc. but a terrible violent temper and not good to my mom, though they were totally codependent. To be honest my mom was also terrible to my dad, called him names, blamed him for everything and openly said terrible things. He is 82 and now very slow having suffered a stroke[b]. Your mom is old, she may not be here long. Consider that[/b]. [/quote] No, you don't get to do that. The whole....guilt trip....your mom may have been awful, but she won't be here very long. Nope. It's a deranged way to reel people back into dysfunction and it's not OK.[/quote]
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