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[quote=Anonymous]You have options other than “get over it” or “dump him”. Men need explicit instructions and to be reminded….a lot. If I tell my H I’m feeling down, or feeling bad about myself, or feeling insecure in our relationship, he’ll just say “sorry, that sucks”. I have to tell him exactly what to do, like sit down on the couch with me and hold me and give me reassurance. Have a talk with him and explain exactly what you need - what you need him to say and how often. Repeat as necessary. Now, if he gives you pushback, or if you keep gently reminding him for months and he still doesn’t do it, then bail. [/quote]
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