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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Love language? Most men would find you exasperating. My husbands actions speak much louder than words and I’m not just talking about sex. (which is great by the way). He’s very sweet and affectionate, he respects me, he backs me up and he really enjoys spending time with me. He often says he loves me but he’s not Mr. Verbal. You need to accept that his love language isn’t yours and you need to get comfortable with it. [/quote]

This is BS. Women deserve better than “just accept he won’t speak your language”. And men can do better.

The men who refuse to meet their wives’ love language eventually find themselves with a wife who refuses to meet their physical touch love language. [/quote]

+1. [b]What would it cost you to tell your wife she is sexy/ hot?[/b]

Yet women are supposed to have maintenance sex with their husbands even when they don't feel like it...

My DH would do it in a heartbeat if that was my love language.

OP is not asking for much.[/quote]

This is NOT what the "words of affirmation" love language means. Any guy can tell his wife/ gf that she looks good; that's easy.  True "words of affirmation" are when my DH tells me how proud he was of me when I finally finished a huge work project, and it went well. Or when I hear him telling other people what a good job I do with the kids. [/quote]

True.

I mixed up OP's post with a PP's comments(something about wanting her DH to say things to her that he won't say to his mother).

But the principle still holds. It shouldn't be that hard or time consuming to say words that make your girlfriend feel good.

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