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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“Forcing his way in “ sounds like the police would care. You really need cameras going forward. [/quote]

I do need cameras.  My point is that my kid has reason to be angry, and not because I told him something, because he saw something.  Frankly “I need space, I want to go for a run to cool off” is a pretty reasonable thing for a kid to say even if they are angry because of ridiculous teen angst. [/quote]

It feels like you are changing the narrative here. At first you talk about him leaving but would stay if you told him to stay. Now it’s going for a run - which I agree is fantastic that your kid recognizes that this is a way to deescalate and that he uses it. I think the answer could be very different depending on the question you are posing and the question is not clear. [/quote]

I asked what happened if he went on visitation, walked out and returned at the time he knew I was picking up.  I don't know that it matters what he does during that time.  Someone else posted about running, and that's a likely possibility, but he also bikes. Or he might wander around. [b]He knows he couldn't go home[/b], and I don't think he'd go to a friend but he might.

I wrote walk, because I didn't want to imply it's a situation where he's bolting in the heat of the moment.  [/quote]
If you close enough for him to bike between your 2 home than what's stopping him?[/quote]

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