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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men who think the mom should do 100% of the work raising their children but also think THEY are equals as parents are idiots. One parent is doing the work of parenting -- the other is not. Of course the one doing the parenting gets to call the shots. But no, the one only cutting the check from a distance thinks it's fine to tell the other parent how to run their household, demand contact on their schedule and then say it's "brainwashing and turning the child against the father" if the one doing the parenting gets to decide when it makes sense to have contact in the actual, real-life household in which the child lives and is being cared for in real life by the actual parent (i.e., not egg or sperm donor). Unreal. I don't see anywhere in the OP's posts that the mom turned his DD against him. She was just struggling to raise her kid. OP you should say "Thank you for raising our daughter on your own. I admire you and appreciate what you've done. I know it must have been hard and I sure as hell couldn't have done it." See if that gets you somewhere instead of complaining about how you didn't get to talk to your DD when YOU wanted to, from the other side of the planet, and now she's not interested in you. Boo hoo hoo.[/quote] Thank you for what?! Stop projecting. If I read correctly the ex wife didn't want to move here. So what was he to do?[/quote] He got himself into that mess. I would never move away from my kids, not for all the money in the world. Never.[/quote] You're not reading correctly. OPs wife said she would move to the US then changed her mind. Do you know any military wives? Many are from foreign lands and DO move to the U.S. and start a life here. I'm sure this is what OP thought it would happen to his "family". [/quote]
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