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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband's high school sweetheart is a B____ with a capital B for telling you.  [/quote]
No. Op’s husband is an ahole for having a three year affair an assuming it would never get out. The other woman is irrelevant.[/quote]

You're missing the point. [b]People aren't blaming the HS sweetheart for the affair. They're blaming her for vindictively telling OP. [i] Her only purpose was to destroy the guy's family.  Just mean[/b].[/quote]

DP. You mean what - holding him accountable for his actions?  You don’t know what Op’s husband was telling the other woman. Now while it’s possible that he was upfront and said he was never leaving his wife, he could have been saying that the marriage was dead, that he was separated, they had an open marriage - who knows what.  He is obviously a liar and a cheater so I’m not sure why you assume he was honest with the OW and lied to the wife.  He made vows  to his wife, he has 3 teenagers, he knows an affair can blow up the marriage.  His high school sweetheart may not be the first that he cheated with and might not be the last that he cheats with.

What gets me is if you switch this around and the wife cheats on the husband, he blames the wife, not the OM, often divorces right away or bides his time and plans to divorce as soon the kids are old enough, and if he plans to stay for whatever reason  he gets at least a revenge affair.  While I agree OP should do the best for her and work out emotions with a therapist not friends and family, let’s be clear this is on the DH.  [/quote]

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