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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am writing it as someone whose exH carried over a hidden affair at work for 5 years. He also did it on work trips/abroad. In my case it was a strong emotional connection between the 2 of them, so he would not stop seeing her. And I wanted out, too as I didn't want to live as a family with his AP so involved in my marriage forever.

But [b]if your husband is already broken up with that woman, she's already disposed of and irrelevant. Her texting you shows her weakness. [/b]Do not break your marriage over some whore. Particular if your husband wants to reconcile, work on the relationship. You have 3 kids to think of ! If otherwise the marriage felt good (no abuse, alcohol, he is a good earner) try to stick it out. Do not confront him openly, do not talk about a divorce. Give yourself time to line up finances, research lawyers, get all statements. Then keep it locked in your drawer until kids are out for college.

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He dumped her and she’s angry.  It’s better than if he thought he was in love, etc.  she was just a bang, used and dumped.

That’s about the timeframe these affairs with infrequent meetups run their course.  They go a little longer because it remains new, but the true colors/personality eventually show up and the sex isn’t so good when it’s not fresh.  Sounds like typical midlife married man thing.  Most don’t get discovered.

Is she married?  [/quote]

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