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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People in a family shouldn't "MYOB". It is not judgemental to care about someone clearly ruining their health and their future. There has to be a way to help obese SIL without it being "meddling." This is family. SIL is using food the way some people use drugs or alcohol. She needs help.

I don't know what to tell you, OP. There are a lot of weird psychological issues that go into being obese. Ask a counselor for  help.

Good for your for caring about your SIL. Too many emotionally sterile people on this board who do not overlap with anyone, not even their own family members. Really weird.[/quote]

Thks. This is OP. Honestly I'm surprised at the amount of hate I have received here. They are accusing me of being jealous of her, people are calling me a troll, and meddling and go to hell etcm we legit love her and have always been concerned for years but never expressed it BC it's nnally all catching up and this post I did was facilitated by the fact that my BIL asked us to have an intervention help. BC we are close. But we have not and don't feel comfortable doing so but we're just questioning if we should. I really do love my SIL.  [/quote]

It's no use, OP. DCUM is over-run by people who are triggered any time they sense you're [b]judging their wobble. [/b]They have no problem judging skinny people, but the double standard doesn't faze them.

Do whatever you need to do, with all the compassion you can muster.

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Yep, nothing like morally superior passive aggression about obesity to show your own virtue right?

I’m team SIL, and I have no wobble, but thanks for providing how awful human beings really are to people who are overweight. [/quote]

How is it awful to try to help her? She may thank OP.[/quote]

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