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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. [b]Her DH asked us to sit down with her. But we are reluctant to[/b].  Don't know why I'm getting all this hate here.  It is very sad to see her dealing with diabetes hypertension etc now.  [/quote]

OP, either you didn't mention that part about her DH, or in the TL;DR category people missed that. The bolded is the most important piece.

That said, in reality there is nothing you can do about this. The DH can talk to her, her brother can say her DH is concerned is there any way he can help. And that is just a maybe. People who are in a bad cycle rarely are going to suddenly change because someone mentions it to them.

The reality is she is probably depressed for some reason, unhappy, unfilled in her life, and it is now so far beyond knowing how to start fixing it that she doesn't even try.

She has to want to fix it, then put a plan together of baby steps.[/quote]

I think most people caught it, but aren’t in the mood to enable workaholic avoidant DH in managing his own household affairs. [/quote]

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