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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate to say this, but it’s cruel to not have another baby.  It seems like you married a great man.  He deserves the opportunity to raised a child who is his.  I’d try to figure out what you can do to make it work.  Realize some of your anxiety may be because of the miscarriage.  [/quote]

Um. What year is this?  No one “deserves the opportunity to raise a child who is his”. Children are people, not a prize handed out for being a “great man” . This sounds like it was written in feudal Europe. [/quote]

Not PP. The point the PP was obviously making is that they signed a lifelong contract assuming one thing and OP now wants to change her mind. That’s not a small thing. You’re either divorced or dense. Or both. [/quote]

I’m neither. I am, however, horrified at the idea of a man “deserving” children. [/quote]

why? People say that about women[/quote]

Because “deserving” children of his own implies a duty of [b]someone else[/b] to provide their body in service of that. That is incredibly gross. [/quote]

Wow you have an incredibly distorted view of marriage. My husband and I do acts of service for each other everyday. Some are minor some are big, and we don’t score-keep. I feel very very sorry for your DH and therapist. If you’re not divorced you will be soon. [/quote]

Gross. I did not consider having my baby an “act of service”.[/quote]

You comment a lot around here and you call everything “gross.” Newsflash: most things - this included - are not, in fact, “gross”. Pick up a dictionary. [/quote]

Telling someone to bear a child after a second trimester miscarriage while she has doubts about whether that is a wanted child, and calling it an act of service is:

1.(adverb)
(especially of wrongdoing) very obvious and unacceptable; blatant.

Hope that helped you!

Your poor children. Imagine being considered a service. [/quote]

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