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[quote=Anonymous]OP, is it always an offer to go grab coffee? Maybe it's the scenario she's not into. Have you ever suggested other things? A porch beer? Patio dinner? An after-dinner walk? Meeting up at the neighborhood pool? A happy hour? I like coffee, but honestly, "getting a coffee" is not the kind of invitation I'd be glad to accept. Sounds terrible to me. Next time you see her--in person (do not text or call)--if you've only ever asked about coffee, ask her (one more time) if she'd like to do something else: "Hey, Dave & I are grilling out this Friday, would you & Steve like to come over for burgers & beer?" See what she says. It may just be one of those couple friendships, and it may not revolve around 1:1 coffee dates, and that's FINE. Asking something else in another way can help you know that. [/quote]
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