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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many are jumping to call this addiction. So Op needs to explain how much he’s smoking. If he’s just staying up late to have alone time and time, that’s not a divorcable offense. [/quote]

OP. As I mentioned, it’s:

- staying up so late he sleeps in until noon on weekends, and often until 9-10am on weekdays (and is then late for work)
[b]- smoking while driving[/b]
- smoking around the baby
- sneaking off in the afternoons to smoke
- using it as an excuse to do nothing. Doesn’t cook, doesn’t clean, doesn’t help with the kids or pets, and has been claiming it is all due to depression[/quote]

DP. Saying this not for OP who knows it already, I"m sure, but for the PPs here who think her DH is some kind of henpecked depressed guy who just likes a toke: The bold ALONE is reason for her to kick him out and tell him he must get treatment and the treatment needs to stick.

Even if you live in a state where recreational weed is legal, driving under the influence is not legal anywhere. He eventually will get pulled over and arrested. He could lose his job, potentially damage any future career prospects (if he needs clearances etc.) and if, God forbid, a kid were in that car, BOTH he and OP could end up embroiled with CPS. At best. Oh, yeah, and he could end up killing himself or killing or injuring someone else if he drives while high. This is the brightest of bright red lines and he's crossed it.[/quote]

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