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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many are jumping to call this addiction. So Op needs to explain how much he’s smoking. If he’s just staying up late to have alone time and time, that’s not a divorcable offense. [/quote]

OP does not owe us a calendar of when he's been smoking and how much each time. If his smoking is a problem, he is a problem smoker.

You are making out that his smoking is recreational. Really read. It's not.

Also: Did you miss the post where she describes how he jumped and bolted to hide the fact he was smoking, when she came in unexpectedly? Their infant was there with him and their infant has had Covid AND was a preemie, so must not be around any form of smoke. And he had the baby there with him while he was toking. He knew it was wrong or he wouldn't have fled like he did. He is not able to make good choices and adult decisions [i]around their kids.[/i] Those last three words are the final straw for OP, I think. But PPs here are determined the DH is just some relaxed, recreational weed user and OP is a controlling spouse who should do couples therapy and accept her "role" in HIS addiction. That's not how dealing with an addict works.[/quote]

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