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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can say “Sure, I’ll do XYZ task before the kids get up. I’m just resting for a second so I can be nice and fresh for when they wake up 😊! Hope you’re day is going well.” I bet they’ll let you be. If they push back, talk to them. “I love watching Larlo and Larla. They are such special kids and so clever. I take my tasks seriously, and find that taking a breather while they nap ensures that I can be my best for them the moment that they wake up.” Then pause. See what they say. I bet they don’t push back. You sound wonderful and if you had to move on, I bet another family would snatch you up. The constant surveillance is ridiculous, by the way. I’m sorry OP. [/quote] MB here. I advise you to continue looking for a job. Also with 12-24 hr days you are getting a lot of overtime? If not you are not getting market rate- make sure you ask for this at your next job. I think this Pps advice is spot on for how to gently help them be better employers. So if the rest of the job is good give it a try. And gently advocating for things is a good skill. I find the best nannies gently guide. when I have gone astray I have really appreciated our nanny gently resetting expectations. Good luck. And if you are looking I’ll bet you find a lot of offers. Nannies have permenantly become the best option for people who can afford one due to the insanity of quarantines and covid decimating the workforce. [/quote]
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