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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you like him, ask him. And tell him you want to be exclusive. It’s strange that he hasn’t asked to be exclusive and is actively dating other people. But maybe there’s a benign explanation - my husband and I met on a paid dating app back in the day and we literally connected on his first few days on the app. He’d already pre paid for 6 months of membership thinking he’d be on there awhile. A friend who was also on the app meddled and would look at his profile to tell me when he last logged in. He did check messages from time to time but he stopped going on dates with other women after a few dates with me, even though we weren’t officially exclusive for a few more months. I wasn’t thrilled about it but in the long run it didn’t matter. Just ask him. You have nothing to lose. [/quote]

Sorry, I misread the original post as you’ve been dating for six months, not a month. It’s not quite as weird given you’ve only been together a month but definitely a little ick if he’s sleeping with you and likes you. If you feel comfortable asking about it, I would. Say you’re enjoying getting to know him, happy to take it slow and see where things go, but would make you more comfortable if you were only seeing/having sex with each other at this point- or something along those lines. I’m sorry OP. Kind of sucks. In my case I think I knew my now DH was not actually dating other people even though we hadn’t had the talk, so it felt okay to let things go there organically and wait a few months. [/quote]

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