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[quote=Anonymous]I hear you OP. I actually in theory wanted my DH to embrace wfh at the start of the pandemic. For about a month, we used to have nice lunches together every day and he would say hi to the kids. The youngest could sneak in and give him a quick hug. But over time it made me feel even more like I was the nanny/housekeeper chef. He goes into and out of his office for hours. No set times, has been able to resume working as though the rest of us don’t exist. But he is still in and out for coffee or snacks or meals. We literally live our life separate again, but that “we can’t make too much noise” ie: kids playing loudly, music on, instrument practice, vacuum unless we know he doesn’t have a call. He isn’t at all volatile or mean about it, but his presence which essentially ignores us, impacts the rest of the household. Thankfully he does go into the office a few days a week and I feel like I can exhale. I don’t really know what it is. I guess in part I’m resentful that he feels this arrangement IS him being around more…but he really isn’t and is disruptive to the rest of our flow too.[/quote]

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