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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are a neat freak, OP. It's ok to be a neat person but what you describe is borderline autistic fixation on things being in order. Almost nobody cleans the fridge before grocery shopping (and what's the point? There are always long lasting things in the fridge, isnt it enough to wipe it once a month? ). Of course laundry needs to be washed and not thrown all over the house. I just accumulate it in one basket for the week and do laundry in one day on weekends. I never wash and fold it right away as it takes a LOT of time

You should work towards finding a middle ground, and it's not just her who needs some work[/quote]

OP here. Maybe I wasn’t being clear. I don’t clean out the fridge as in wipe down or anything. I just throw out things that are old or will never be eaten and just organize it a little so I know what to get from the store. We have a clean lady who cleans it once a month.

I’m just used to be being neat. I grew up with a military dad and a mom who cleaned houses and taught me to clean.

The thing that gets to me the most is her clothes thrown everywhere. The entire walk-in closet is a mess with her shoes and clothes dumped everywhere. The other thing is I have no counter space because she leaves her makeup and skin products all over the counter. [/quote]

Ok, well you have more than more bathroom and closet? Either break up or realize this is your new normal. [/quote]

OP here. We have another one but very little counter space and we only have one walk-in closet. [/quote]

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