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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel this is weird and only happens when one spouse makes a lot more and wants to control or doesn’t trust the other person with their money. I can’t really imagine doing this. Make a budget and get on the same page with your spouse. Don’t be a clueless wife, spend money on your credit card, and expect your spouse to pay it off. That’s how women get screwed. Husband leaves and shuts off credit cards and they have no idea how to even log into their bank account. [/quote] Ha, you can't generalize everyone who has separate finances is lacking trust or exerting control. I am not controlled by my husband or his money, nor do we have a marriage that is shaky. I can buy anything I want and WE decide how our money is spent. I'm not clueless and and we have plenty of money that we are not on a budget. HHI and 8 figure net worth. We aren't counting pennies or debating who picks up the check. You do you, don't worry about the rest of us.[/quote]
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