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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I say this with kindness and without judgment: You need to put out before your husband starts looking elsewhere.

Find a babysitter to watch the kids and take an evening for yourselves each week. If you’re still uneasy with your body for whatever reason tell him that. Think of it as a time to perfect your bj skills. Men just operate differently than women it’s normal but you have to compromise. At this point it’s been a year with very little goodies I can understand his frustration. [/quote]

She is THREE MONTHS past having twins and is “putting out” once a week! You’re insane, or a dude who feels like it’s his responsibility to get every other dude laid. [/quote]

You're living in fantasy land. Soon it'll be but the twins need this... or I'm tired... and before you know it, hubby is looking elsewhere. It's just the way it goes. It's the reality of the thing. It just is. Either she musters up the umph to do it, or she'll be having serious marital issues in the next 3-6 months, I guarantee.[/quote]

+1 best thing for those kids is a strong marriage[/quote]

What is it about unwanted sex that leads to a strong marriage? [/quote]

Your husband won’t leave you for the secretary [/quote]

If my H left for the secretary or cheated because we were having sex only once a week due to having 3 month old twins, she can have him. Any male who does that is worthless trash and their wife is way better off without them.

These pieces of garbage act like their fidelity is so precious but it’s not. If you can’t keep it in your pants for 6 days, you’re not a man, and you’re not worth having.

But my guess is they’re all selfish guys in sexless marriages who couldn’t get laid if they were paying for it. A secretary? LOL. They aren’t interested, honey. [/quote]

+1000 Some of these responses are just insane. We had a long stretch of no sex after our first was born and when it returned our sex life was even better than before because we became even closer through sharing the craziness of newborn parenting (my husband was super focused on taking an equal role in childcare, not pestering me for sex). [/quote]

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