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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG, op! I mean, talk about the lack of self-reflection! You sound like an uppity, insecure snobbish type who has no idea what values matter in grown-up life and families.
Your SIL might be this or that, but she sure doesn't seem stuck in the HS mentality you are clearly in and mistake it for "worldliness!"[/quote]

OP here. I am insecure? Oh please. I am not the one getting pissed over an exgf of my husband. I am not the one who makes her husband call his sister about his upset spouse. If she had beef with me, she should've been the one to call me. That's what adults do. So yes, tell me again how I am the one who's insecure.[/quote]

I love that insecure is the only thing you take issue with.

Apparently the words uppity and snobbish and lack of understanding values and misunderstanding worldliness do apply![/quote]

Just because OP doesn't want to hang out with SIL doesn't make her snobby. Her SIL sounds immature if anything. Why get in between sister and brother and not address her concerns with OP directly?

Just because someone is married to your sibling doesn't require you to be all buddy-buddy with them. And there's nothing "uppity" about it. People are different, you shouldn't force them on each other.[/quote]
Sure, all you wrote is correct. But, then there is this from OP that has nothing at all to do with the topic, just a side serving of "I am so better than her."
[b]Several years ago my brother married SIL; she is a nice woman but our personalities are just so different. I am polite to her, I try to spoil my nieces and nephew but we really don't have much to talk about other than the kids. I mean, the woman has never been outside of the US, not because of $$ issues but because she simply doesn't want to. Her ideal vacation is her parents' lake house. She also doesn't work and I am still not sure what she did before kids. I, on the other hand, am a working mom, I am still active in our community and I don't get tired easily  My ideal vacation involves a lot of movement.[/b]
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