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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the concept of flirting is too subjective to call it cheating or disrespectful. I smile a lot. I’ve literally been told I was flirting with someone because I smiled. We didn’t even speak, and I smiled at everyone. If it’s smiling and banter, who cares? It’s not the 19th century. But then again I’ve been known to show my ankles, so I guess I’m a fast woman. Touching, dirty jokes with too much innuendo… that’s probably where the line is for us. Making out definitely crosses a line and is way too flirty. [/quote]

^This absolutely this.  I learned a long long time ago that men often mistake my being nice with flirting.  For a while I stopped smiling and laughing and even talking to men.  I now realize that if I am nice to them and they mistake it for flirting that isn’t my problem.  I never use innuendo and bring up my husband during these conversations, and have clear boundaries with any touching (even elbow touching or whatever).  But i should be able to smile and laugh and hold a conversation.[/quote]

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