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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am dealing with a similar situation. DH has gotten on a kick where he responds to every single question, or just anything I, or anyone else, says by responding "Da-dee sang bass" in a very, very looooowwww voice.

How was your meeting?  "Da-dee sang bass"   
Are you planning to go the grocery store any time soon?  "Da-dee sang bass" 
Have you seen my keys anywhere?  "Da-dee sang bass"

He also insists on wearing his shirts as "pants", with his legs coming through the sleeves.  It's only around the house, but I am concerned.

He put a pair of my underwear on his head and said "This hat is too tight!" in full view of a neighbor.  What to do?

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Saw your other post too. So...t-shirts as pants. Well, thank God he at least uses a belt. Thanks for the detail. It's too much detail and I'm betting you know that most here assume you are a troll, mocking mental illness, right? Ending with "What to do?" is too breezy, by the way. Work harder next time on your writing skills if you're going to troll like this.

If a real DH were as far gone, mentally, as doing all the things you claim, he should already have been admitted to an inpatient mental health hospital. On the infinitesimally slim chance you are for real, you should have committed him for non-negotiable help already. But your post smacks loudly of fabricated TV-sitcom ideas of what "crazy" looks like.  [/quote]

I forget if I saw it here or on Reddit, but I remember a post where a husband acted like that for a year, talking complete nonsense and doing crazy sh!t like underwear as a hat. The wife was freaking out, and a year into it, finally her husband confessed he had a bet with a friend that he could act like that for a year and she wouldn’t divorce him. Begged her to stay so he could win the bet. I believe she left him. [/quote]

Any person who would do that for that length of time (or any length of time beyond...five minutes) is truly out of whack mentally and emotionally. If that story is true, I hope the wife DID leave him. It's insanely immature behavior. Not just the nonsensical actions but the choice to keep them up for so long and to give that kind of priority to a bet with a buddy, over the welfare of the marriage or the wife's stress dealing with what she thought were genuine problems. Got to be a fictional story though...right? One can hope. I'm just pi$$ed at the PP who is laying on the nonsense here, when the OP is dealing with very real and potentially life-altering mental health issues in her very real DH.[/quote]

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